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Image: The mother of 13 children gives birth to quadruplets at the age of 65

A 65-year-old woman from Berlin has become the oldest mother in the world to give birth to quadruplets. 
Annegret Raunigk, who is retired, attracted everyone's attention when she gave birth to 4 children at once. 
 But beyond the wonder related to her age, another fact makes her story even more interesting. 
Annegret has 13 other children, with five different fathers. 



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The Real Reason You're Not Getting Pregnant (That No One Talks About Enough)

If you’ve been trying to get pregnant and nothing’s working — not the perfect timing, not the tracking apps, not even the supplements everyone swears by — it can feel so frustrating. Month after month, negative test after negative test… you start wondering: What am I missing?

The truth? Infertility is more complex than we’re usually told. And it’s not always about age or luck. Most women I know who’ve been through this journey just want someone to tell them what’s really going on — no more guesswork.

Let’s talk about that.


So… What Is Infertility, Really?

Infertility isn’t just about not getting pregnant. It can also mean struggling to stay pregnant — whether that’s through recurrent miscarriages, ectopic pregnancies, or other losses.

Doctors usually define it as trying for 12 months (or 6 if you’re over 35) without success. But that’s just the surface. Underneath, there are dozens of possible causes — and often, it’s not just one issue but several things quietly working against you at once.


Why Finding the Root Cause Matters So Much

One of the biggest mistakes women face is getting a generic diagnosis or being rushed into treatment without truly understanding what’s going on underneath. If your doctor’s only addressing one symptom (like irregular cycles or a blocked tube), you might miss the bigger picture.

Real healing happens when you treat the whole system — not just the symptoms.


Common Causes of Infertility in Women

Let’s break it down in a way that actually makes sense. These are the most common root causes many women face:

💔 Hormonal Imbalance / Anovulation
If your body isn’t releasing mature, healthy eggs, conception is nearly impossible. Things like:

  • PCOS (which throws off your LH, FSH, and testosterone)

  • Thyroid or pituitary issues

  • Premature ovarian failure

  • Damage from past surgeries or infections

💔 Fallopian Tube Issues
If your tubes are blocked or damaged, the egg and sperm can’t meet up. This can happen from:

  • Past infections (even ones you didn’t know you had)

  • Surgeries

  • Ectopic pregnancy

  • Inflammation from things like endometriosis or appendicitis

💔 Immune System Imbalance
Some women produce antisperm antibodies — literally attacking sperm as if it were a threat. Others have natural killer cells that prevent embryos from implanting, or cause inflammation that makes a healthy pregnancy harder to maintain.

💔 Lifestyle + Environmental Factors
Let’s be real: things like stress, poor diet, exposure to toxins, and even heavy caffeine, alcohol, or smoking all chip away at our body’s natural ability to conceive. And sadly, this stuff doesn’t always show up in test results.


Image: Pregnancy Miracle - Getting Pregnant Naturally
And Yes — Infertility Can Be Reversed (Even If You’ve Been Told It Can’t)

If any of this sounds familiar, take a deep breath. I want you to know that many of these causes can be addressed — especially if you take a holistic approach that works with your body instead of against it.

And that’s exactly what Lisa Olson’s Pregnancy Miracle is about. It’s not a quick fix — it’s a powerful, proven system that helps you uncover why your body isn’t conceiving, and then shows you how to restore balance naturally.

Lisa’s method has helped thousands of women finally hear the words “You’re pregnant” — many of whom were told they never would.


✨ Want to learn what might be keeping you from getting pregnant — and how to finally fix it?
👉  Start with the Pregnancy Miracle here

You’re not alone, friend. And you’re not out of options. There is hope — and it starts with getting to the real root of what’s going on inside your body.


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Hi ladies, I have you all beat!

I'm 48 years old with my first pregnancy, my husband is 48 years old as well.

I am 14 weeks pregnant, feeling great and either swimming 1500 or running a mile every other day.

All the first-round tests were normal, and my neonatologist does not recommend an amniocentesis.

We are blessed and feel very lucky.

It doesn't hurt to be extremely active all your life...


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: The Infertility Cure: The Ancient Chinese Wellness Program for Getting Pregnant and Having Healthy Babies, by Randine Lewis. Publisher: Little, Brown and Company (March 21, 2005)
The Infertility Cure: The Ancient Chinese Wellness Program for Getting Pregnant and Having Healthy Babies
by Randine Lewis

-- Infertility affects one out of six couples today.

Dr. Lewis presents a groundbreaking alternative approach to infertility, explaining how she used traditional Chinese medicine to treat her own infertility, successfully conceiving and giving birth to two children.

In Lewis's experience, women who have undergone three to six months of the dietary changes, herbs and acupuncture treatments become pregnant with no further effort.

Lewis intersperses her somewhat technical examination of the program with anecdotes about her patients, weaving in discussions on diet, herbal supplements, acupuncture, older women and problems related to infertility.

📚 Paperback: 320 pages
Click to order/for more info: The Infertility Cure
Image: Twins - Baby Shoes, by CongerDesign on Pixabay

Sure it can happen!

I used to work in radiology, and one day we had a 50+-year-old woman come in for a prenatal sonogram.


She was very surprised to learn that day, she was pregnant with twins...

Two babies, and she said her pregnancy was a surprise.

She said they were not only NOT trying, but thought she was too old to get pregnant.

And the babies were due in just six more weeks!


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: Eat Yourself Pregnant: Essential Recipes to Boost your Fertility, by Zita West. Published: Watkins Publishing (September 23, 2014)
Eat Yourself Pregnant: Essential Recipes to Boost your Fertility
by Zita West
--Zita West, midwife to Cate Blanchett, Stella McCartney, and Kate Winslet, shares her expertise in nutrition to help you and your baby stay healthy naturally throughout your pregnancy. It is crucial to eat an optimum diet during pregnancy.

Your levels of nutrients need to be high in order to support you through the process of pregnancy, and the baby that you're carrying inside of you needs the full range of nutrients to be as healthy as possible. It can be difficult and tiring to make nutrient-filled meals, but Zita gives you clear information and simple, easy-to-make recipes.

The first section of the book covers details such as what nutrients are important and what they do for you and your baby, and foods that are unhealthy to consume during pregnancy.

The second section uses the vitamins and nutrients explained in the first section in 80 delicious recipes.

Introduction Your Health -- nutrients your body needs as it changes, sources of these nutrients, foods that help with the side effects of pregnancy, the importance of safe exercise
Your Baby's Health -- nutrients your baby needs to grow, what they do, sources of these nutrients 

What to Avoid -- foods not to eat why they are bad for you and your baby

Breakfasts Light Meals Snacks and Treats Main Meals Desserts.

📚 Paperback: 160 pages
Click to order/for more info: Eat Yourself Pregnant

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Image: Sam in the Sunbeam, by Dean Johnson, on Flickr

For what it's worth, in this conversation:

My very good friend had an unplanned pregnancy when she was 44 years old.

She had no idea what her FSH [follicle stimulating hormone] was.

She delivered her son when she was 45 years old.

I know that doesn't necessarily resonate with some of us here.

She might not have had high FSH, and she did have other children many years previously.

Her son is 16 years younger than his closest in age sister, and she wasn't struggling with TTC [trying to conceive].

But I just wanted to share my friend's experience to show the anonymous poster's choice of analogy is not realistic.


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: The Everything Fertility Book: All you need to know about fertility, conception, and a healthy pregnancy, by Nicole Galan. Publisher: Adams Media; 1 edition (January 14, 2011)
The Everything Fertility Book: All you need to know about fertility, conception, and a healthy pregnancy
by Nicole Galan

-- Infertility can be a frustrating and heartbreaking disorder compounded by complicated treatments, and so-called miracle cures on the market.

But couples who have trouble conceiving need all their options laid out in one convenient guide.

In this book, you'll find the medical and holistic information you need to conceive and bear a happy, healthy child.

With this authoritative and friendly guide, getting pregnant doesn't have to be a stressful process.

Armed with knowledge and reassurance, you will be ready to make the choices that will work best for you and start your family, today.

📚 Paperback: 304 pages
Click to order/for more info: The Everything Fertility Book

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Image: Pregnant, by jdurham, on Morguefile

I will be 44 years old in April.

I am fifteen weeks pregnant with my seventh child...

YIKES!


My six children are 21, 18, 15, 10, 4 and 2 years old.

All of my children are happy about my pregnancy (the youngest two don't know or care).

Except the 15-year-old, who had problems with the news.

What's up with that?


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: Hot Flashes Warm Bottles: First-Time Mothers Over Forty, by Nancy London. Publisher: Celestial Arts; 1 edition (April 19, 2001)
Hot Flashes Warm Bottles: First-Time Mothers Over Forty
by Nancy London

-- The first prescriptive and anecdotal guidebook for the multitudes of older moms, and distills the wisdom, insight, and practical advice gathered during her years as a therapist and support group leader.

With tips for renewing physical and sexual energy, parenting after infertility and adoption, balancing career and family, and caring for elderly parents, the personal stories from these older moms are often humorous, sometimes surprising, but always reassuring.

Without exception, the reader will be left with the comforting knowledge that she is not alone on her journey. Hot Flashes fills a much-needed place in the parenting field, at a time when more and more women are embracing motherhood later in life.

📚 Paperback: 192 pages
Click to order/for more info: Hot Flashes Warm Bottles
Image: 2010 Boston Marathon - elite women, by JD (Kinchan1), on Flickr

A 46-year-old woman in her eighth month of pregnancy took part in a marathon recently held in Boston (the USA).

She covered 42 km within seven hours.

New York resident April Noan, who is to become 47 years old in several weeks, said her doctors and organizers of the marathon allowed her to participate in the heat.

What is more interesting, the woman does not understand why people make so much fuss about her deed?

Her opinion is, pregnancy is not a disease.

Women in past centuries treated pregnancy especially seriously only when it came to its end.

This Pregnancy Over 40 story was found on Funreports.com
Read more: Pregnant marathon athlete
Originally posted on April 24, 2002


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
My Baby Chase
My Baby Chase: Our Roller Coaster Ride from Infertility to Parenthood
by Gilda Dangot Simpkin

-- This is the heart-wrenching tale of our convoluted 10-year quest to have a family, from the serious, and sometimes hilarious side of fertility treatments, through two harrowing international adoptions.

Our journey is filled with so many cliffhangers it reads more like a suspense tale than reality.

As you come along for our wild ride, you will be clutching this book praying we don't get derailed again.

Our story of determination and tenacity will give hope to anyone facing a difficult life journey.

Let my story motivate you to attain your dreams!

📚 Paperback: 188 pages
Click to order/for more info: My Baby Chase
Image: Hiding Behind Hands, by Kind of Bruin, on Flickr

My grandmother had her sixth and last baby when she was 47 years old.

Yes, it was a spontaneous pregnancy.

She thought she was having the menopause.

She was surprised to give birth to a healthy baby boy, at home, after 45-minute labor.

That baby is in his 50s now, and a physician and father himself.

My grandmother was VERY shocked, needless to say.


TODAY'S BOOK SUGGESTION:
Image: What He Can Expect When She's Not Expecting: How to Support Your Wife, Save Your Marriage, and Conquer Infertility!, by Marc Sedaka and Gregory Rosen. Publisher: Skyhorse Publishing (March 8, 2011)
What He Can Expect When She's Not Expecting
How to Support Your Wife, Save Your Marriage, and Conquer Infertility!

by Marc Sedaka and Gregory Rosen

-- Mark Sedaka stood by while he and his wife endured endless rounds of drug therapies, sixteen artificial inseminations, ten in-vitro fertilizations, three miscarriages, and, finally, a gestational surrogate (womb for rent) who carried their twin girls to term.

He was as supportive and loving as he could be, but he really wished he'd had a book like What He Can Expect When She's Not Expecting during the process. Most books about dealing with infertility are geared toward women, leaving the man to his own devices when it comes to comfort and encouragement (never a good idea).

With the help of his own infertility doctor, Sedaka provides straightforward guy-friendly advice on situations such as: What questions you should ask at the consultations, how to help rather than annoy, what kinds of tests you and your wife should expect, how to console a wife who appears inconsolable, and how to enjoy procreation sex.

Sedaka's accessible, empathetic voice, combined with the fact that he experienced everything he writes about, makes this a must-have book for any infertile couple.

📚 Paperback: 208 pages
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